There's the saying "if Mom is happy, the whole family is happy"...
Well, lately the mood around here has more often than not been set by this guy:
I was reminded last night how helpful it can be to look at the world from his point of view. I can imagine that 2 1/2 feet tall with a limited vocabulary could be frustrating at times. Add on top of that a Daddy that's MIA and a little brother that commandeers half of Mama's attention and I guess I can't totally blame him for acting up. Still, it's been tough on us all. He's been so angry lately, and has thrown some pretty intense tantrums. It seems no matter what I do or offer, it's just not the right thing*. Sometimes he's happy though.
And sometimes he's precious.
And all the time I love him... even if he does make me crazy.
*Sorry Mom, for all the times you felt this way. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings, just like I'm sure Hyrum doesn't mean to.
ps...I updated the family picture under "contact us"
ps...I updated the family picture under "contact us"
5 comments:
I'm so sorry, Jules. That's so tough. Good for you for trying to keep the good parts in mind. I have some unsolicited advice that I'm sure you already know, but it bears repeating: toddlers are just desperate for control. If you can let him make lots of simple decisions, it might soothe his temper.
I love you. I hope things get better soon. Hugs!
Julianne,
Forgiven a long time ago. We do the best we can. You have been in my thoughts a lot lately. This must be why. I often think, this too shall pass,,,,, and they another struggle will appear. No, really, love him and I like Liz' suggestions. I love you.
MOM
And pray!!! William has been such a struggle, and with Heinz and the baby, he has limited one on one time, but crafts have been a lifesaver. We have spend our fair share of money on Crayola color wonder paints and markers lately, a craft and actually a scheduled quiet (not that quite, but playing in his room with the door closed while I rest...hehehe) time has really helped him. I prayed for MONTHS to know how to help William (help myself not want to keep him in his crib (kill him) ) but anyway, the Lord will tell you what he will need to help him more happy.
We are proud of the way that you hang in there and keep a good perspective. We are very glad that you are raising our grandsons. Love Mom and Dad
Toddler times are tough times. :( I wish I had advice for you but alas...earwax. Hang in there.
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